Million dollar advice. Many people focus on their emotions and at the end of the day end up in an emotional pit.
Being nice and caring is nice but don't let others defile your spirit. You got to understand not everybody is like you. Not everybody thinks like you.
What is even tricky, you might get it twisted thinking you are applying your emotional intelligence. And when applying your emotional intelligence you pretend like nothing happened and stick around. Never stick around with bad energies, importantly use your feelings as well, not just your emotions.