This can be elusive, especially if you are success oriented. Learning how not to worry about things you can't control is powerful. I would even advance it and say don't focus on things you can't control. Doing this can be a complete game changer, just as Roy T. Bennet put it.

The reason is because once you stop focusing on things you can't control, you start optimizing and putting maximum effort on the things that you can control.

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